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NO.

  • Jul. 8th, 2008 at 11:32 AM
NO.
via sex_and_race

Hey, look! A stupid fucking article says really stupid things!

Reading this ill-informed load of crap made me want to throttle the author. Really? Pretty people are JUST LIKE gay and disabled people? REALLY?! And, the complete lack of analysis about gender or race with the anecdote that began the piece is just...boggling. Like I said in SNR, there's a way to discuss how being traditionally "beautiful" can be a challenge, but that way is NOT to make pretty people seem like this poor, persecuted group.

"To a certain extent, some people react to an unusually attractive person as they might to a disabled person or any other disadvantaged group: by ignoring them."

Why oh why oh WHY is this author clamoring to shove pretty people under the oppression umbrella? I mean, anyone with a freaking brain knows that isms like racism, sexism, classism, etc. also hurt the privileged group, but to say that privileged people have it just as bad as oppressed groups? Jesus fucking christ. I am just...dumbfounded.

Aaaaanyway, I'll step off my soapbox for a second, but I thought y'all might also want to see what shoddy excuse for writing is passing for journalism these days.

On a completely different note, Operation CookAtHome is going fairly well. In order to save money and eat better, I'm beginning a quest to unlearn some bad habits I picked up when I moved here. Namely, eating out all of the time instead of preparing my own foods. I started it for a good enough reason - my roommate kept his cats' litterbox in the kitchen, and therefore I avoided the kitchen at all possible times - but now that the cats are gone (and have been for 6 months) I have no good reason not to cook at home. I'm also trying to conquer my dislike of leftovers. I have a limit - eating meals more than 2 or 3 times in a row is not something I enjoy, except for breakfast, which is the same thing every day 5 days a week (toasted everything bagel with butter, banana, coffee). So I figure if I can eat the same breakfast every day, I can also do it with lunch. So I'm attempting to eat chicken sandwiches on wheat with grapes and sea salt chips for lunch at least 4 times this week. I figure I can do things like add avocado and toast it to make it seem new and different and exciting, but we'll see. Last night, I made a frozen pizza and grilled some asparagus on the George Foreman, and it was excellent!

They say that unlearning a habit takes 30-something times of repeating the new habit, so all I have to do is make it for the next month, right?

Comments

[info]riotnrrrdcore wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 03:35 pm (UTC)
lets be very clear how much I love you!
[info]bias_cut wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 03:37 pm (UTC)
I know you only love me for my looks!
[info]sparkymonster wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 03:38 pm (UTC)
Have you seen the blog http://noteatingoutinny.com/ ? It's pretty useful for that project, and she doesn't make many things w/ tons of leftovers.
[info]bias_cut wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 03:40 pm (UTC)
What a great resource, thank you!
[info]sparkymonster wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 03:44 pm (UTC)
Note the clever distraction from STUPID ARTICLE
[info]bias_cut wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 03:48 pm (UTC)
I feel that your tone is an indication that you are oppressing me as a Pretty Person.
[info]bounce_n_jiggle wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 04:04 pm (UTC)
gosh i have this problem all the time, it's never been the homo or fat phobia i've had to deal with from my family and others. it's really that they hate me for being so pretty.
good thing we're having a prettypride march and doing social justice work for the beautiful and misunderstood.

ok what's so funny is that the remedy to those "beautiful" people being ignored or whatever their complaint was, was for them to be nice and treat people well. As if they had some major hurdle to overcome. Like you're actually not entitled to have people fall all over you just because you're pretty. WTF?
[info]bias_cut wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 04:07 pm (UTC)
And it's such blatant discrimination that we don't see representation of pretty people in traditional media outlets like television, film, magazines, or...wait a minute!
[info]outcastspice wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 04:05 pm (UTC)
i ate the same lunch (wrap with fake ground beef, diced red pepper, corn niblets, grated cheese, guac) for a year and it went well. then i suddenly got bored.

re leftovers, i think everyone gets bored of food (well, most foods). the trick is to figure out other things to do with leftovers that turn it into somethign different. like, pasta one day becomes casserole the next, just add veggies/sauce and bake with cheese on top. or roasted root veggies one day are mashed potates the next. stir fry becomes soup! :)
[info]bias_cut wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 04:08 pm (UTC)
I've been eating the same breakfast for over a year and I haven't gotten sick of it yet! So strange how I can do that for one meal and not another.

But I agree that I just need to learn more recipes so I can turn leftovers into new things.
[info]outcastspice wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 04:41 pm (UTC)
that is indeed funny!

i bet there are websites that have great ideas for leftover recipes!

[info]fightscrime wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 04:29 pm (UTC)
He kept his litterbox in the kitchen? That's fucking gross!
[info]chitinous wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 04:44 pm (UTC)
What you said!
[info]bias_cut wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 05:05 pm (UTC)
It is, but I love my roommate and the cats are gone now, so fortunately it's no longer an issue!
[info]sunhawk wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 04:35 pm (UTC)
That article is unintentionally hilarious, with me picturing all these skinny model types crying into their Prada handbags :X

Ugh your roommate reminds me of the roommates I once had who had such disgusting kitchen habits I never felt safe cooking, so I just cooked dinner at my friend's house for nearly a year. I'm talking about people leaving shrimp on the window ledge all day "to thaw" or me finding a puddle of grease on the bottom of the inside of the oven D:
[info]bias_cut wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 05:06 pm (UTC)
Oh, my roommate is totally awesome and considerate, so I'm very fortunate. It was just the cat box thing that was gross and I never asked him to move it for a number of reasons that I won't go to.

But yes, the article was indeed "hilarious."
[info]rainbowthespian wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 04:53 pm (UTC)
Are you interested in joining a dinner collective? We are looking for new members...

http://www.cooking.copingincrazyville.com/forum/index.php?sid=b7f273036cae68ec063a960743edbf3c
[info]bias_cut wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 05:07 pm (UTC)
There doesn't seem to be anything under the FAQ? Can you tell me more about it?
[info]jen_tel wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 05:16 pm (UTC)
I hope there are support groups out there for those sad bastards who are both hot & queer!
[info]bias_cut wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 06:25 pm (UTC)
Those poor pretty people could also probably find like-faced minded people to date in those support groups, because really, who would want to date an attractive person??!
[info]queen_bbb wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 06:08 pm (UTC)
Tara, I ask you in all earnestness, what can YOU do for the pretty?

Also, I got tired of making sandwiches so now they are on tortillas.
[info]bias_cut wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 06:26 pm (UTC)
I can bestow my pity on them for their sad, sad plight!

Also, I like the wrap idea in theory, but I actually really detest sandwich wraps. Boo on me!
[info]queen_bbb wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 06:34 pm (UTC)
Oh, it's not a wrap! I do it like a quesadilla and eat it in pieces like a 3 year old.
[info]teanut wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 11:15 pm (UTC)
I am gonna get in here and say to panini it if you have the foreman!
[info]drinkasyoupour wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 06:21 pm (UTC)
more food, more pretty
Fellow foodie, i love seeing you write about what you're cooking.

I am a cookbook whore, and I made something from this book last night, that was indeed quick and easy and also, really fucking good. Stir fried chicken and veggies and noodles in coconut sauce. And when it says 4 servings, it actually means 4 good size servings, I made it for dinner last night, my roommate had some and I still have enough for at least 2 more lunches. But I am the same as you, I can't deal with eating the same thing every day. I will probably be choking down that last lunch.
[info]bias_cut wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 06:24 pm (UTC)
Re: more food, more pretty
I'm sure there's a cookbook out there that I'm too lazy to find, but what I need is a cookbook that teaches you an affordable way to cook for one without having to use the same ingredients all week. Maybe it's a pipe dream?

That cookbook looks great, though!

I have to say that one of my Operation CookAtHome goals is to be more like you! Because you seem to cook a lot more often than me, and your homemade stuff sounds pretty freaking amazing!
[info]drinkasyoupour wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 06:54 pm (UTC)
Re: more food, more pretty
aw, sweet! I cook more when I am dating someone than when I am not, as cooking for only one person (and dirtying up the kitchen and all that) is not as much fun. Since my dating life is, uh, Complicated right now, the cooking has been sporadic. But really, as someone once said to me, why do I alone not deserve a fantastic meal cooked by me? I would like to cook more, but man, the leftovers and the cleaning are daunting.
[info]bias_cut wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 06:57 pm (UTC)
Re: more food, more pretty
Fortunately, I absolutely believe that I deserve a fabulous meal for one!

But without a dishwasher, I also hate the cleanup and the leftovers.
[info]sooner69 wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 07:29 pm (UTC)
Pretty Power!
Says Carolynn Thelemaque, "this is who I am, and I. Am. Beautiful." (punctuation altered to better indicate how I heard that in my head when I read it.)

I really respect her for owning her prettiness. I sort of feel like Tyra Banks should highlight this problem with a haute couture fashion lay out on the next season of America's Next Top Model, just like last cycle when Tyra created awareness of homelessness by putting actual homeless people wearing couture in the background of photos featuring models dressed as if they were homeless. That's the kind of thing that might bring some real change for all those pretty people out there who seem to have so much trouble getting attention in social situations, especially when they bring their homely friends out with them to act as wing-people or whatever.
[info]bias_cut wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 09:50 pm (UTC)
Re: Pretty Power!
If Tyra did a hard-hitting exposé on how poorly pretty people are treated in this horribly discriminatory society, I think we would all care to be enlightened.
[info]and_old_lace wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 08:51 pm (UTC)
I've been trying to cook more at home and stop eating out so much as well. It is so hard. I hear you
[info]bias_cut wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 09:51 pm (UTC)
It feeds (no pun intended) into my laziness, which clearly doesn't need further encouragement!
[info]lizsybarite wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 10:17 pm (UTC)
must've been a slow news day
Wow, pretty people get made fun of sometimes TOO? RLY?!? And of course that makes it just like being gay or disabled or not-white or fat or UGLY or whatever. I mean, natch.

Oh, and this just in: SMART PEOPLE FALSELY ASSUMED TO BE UNINTERESTED IN REALITY TV. "It's so HURTFUL when no one believes I watch A Shot at Love with Tila Tequila just because I have a 175 IQ," mourned Brainiac McEinstein. "I wish brilliant people like me weren't so stereotyped!"
[info]bias_cut wrote:
Jul. 9th, 2008 02:11 am (UTC)
Re: must've been a slow news day
Hahaha!

Sometimes I do feel the need to start a Smarties Into Dumb TV support group!
[info]evilgenius_nnl wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 10:30 pm (UTC)
you know what's actually sort of interesting about this article?

oh wait. nothing.

[info]bias_cut wrote:
Jul. 9th, 2008 02:11 am (UTC)
Yep.
[info]teanut wrote:
Jul. 8th, 2008 11:22 pm (UTC)
Everyone pretty much said everything already but I am a fan of turning leftovers into other things as well. I am also trying to overcome my disgust of leftovers. My favourite thing is to mash up everything and make em into patties and fry them and put some sort of sauce on them. I also feel like sauces are an easy way to mix it up.

P.S. I stopped reading that article after the first 'cute' little anecdote. Blech!
[info]bias_cut wrote:
Jul. 9th, 2008 02:12 am (UTC)
Paninis! OMG totally!

Now I can't wait to make some!
[info]rainbowthespian wrote:
Jul. 9th, 2008 01:24 am (UTC)
Here's how a dinner collective works:

You make a dish you'd be willing to eat. Instead of cooking for one, you make as many portions as there are people in the collective. Let's say there are six people involved. Make six portions. Put them in takeout type containers.

Meet with the people and swap so that you end up with six different meals. Voila!

It is cheaper to make six portions of something than six small meals.

ACTUALLY, with the various agendas of the people in my life, we are either

1. canceling the DC

2. adding enough more members that various peoples' needs can be met

3. Changing the style to a more casual approach where you don't have to commit to showing up every week but when you DO go, you just bring as many portions as you want, and make sure to only leave with the same number of containers as you brought into the equation. This would mean that people could come whenever it was convenient and the core people would still get meals swapped.

Does that help? We're all pretty good cooks. Some of the meals that have been made for it include grilled salmon with caramelized leeks and onions, homemade jamaican style meat patties, breakfast scones with bacon and cheddar, turkey and lambsquarter lasagna, etc...

The next meeting of it is Saturday, and I think then it will take a hiatus for the summer, though I could be wrong.

Did I mention we're fairly desperate for new members? :)
[info]bias_cut wrote:
Jul. 9th, 2008 02:10 am (UTC)
Sounds intriguing, but it also makes me worry that I wouldn't have enough time to finish all 6 (or however many) dishes before they went bad.

Unfortunately, I won't be available this Saturday, but please do remind me once you all start up again!
[info]rainbowthespian wrote:
Jul. 9th, 2008 02:11 am (UTC)
Well of course, you only swap as many as you want!
[info]glassmarble wrote:
Jul. 9th, 2008 06:55 am (UTC)
The bullshit in that article is why I no longer frequent Makeup Alley. Many of the more active members there really believe that attractive, thin people are oppressed as much as...well, groups that really are systematically oppressed.
[info]bias_cut wrote:
Jul. 9th, 2008 04:50 pm (UTC)
That is sad.
[info]gotmce99 wrote:
Jul. 9th, 2008 10:03 pm (UTC)
You know the only thing harder than being pretty?

Being white.